How I got back behind the wheel after an accident
As the September winner of WOW’s writing competition, Kavita gives her advice on how to overcome your driving fears after an accident.
The Wheels of Change
By Kavita Ramjee
We do it daily. The school run, to work, to visit our loved ones. We get behind the wheel and drive daily without ever thinking that we may be involved in an accident. It becomes second nature and we drive with confidence, wind through our hair and listening to our favourite tunes. But what happens when we are involved in an accident. Getting back behind the wheel can be a daunting experience, even for those F1 drivers among us.
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I was involved in a small fender bender a few years ago and that was enough to leave me a little shaken up. These are the tricks and tips I used to get back behind the wheel.
Preparation is key
Although accidents are just that, unintentional and unforeseen, one should be as prepared as possible. Most important, ensure your car is well maintained and insured and that all car services are up to date. As a woman who drives alone, I always ensure that my phone is charged or that I have a working car charger/power bank. I ensure that my medical aid sticker is visible on my car – you’ll want to make sure someone sees this if you’re hurt badly and need to be rushed to hospital. As a qualified first aider, my first aid kit is always in the boot of my car. You don’t need to be a first aider to have a first aid kit. This is especially handy for small injuries and could potentially save your life one day.
You’re involved in an accident, now what?
Assess the situation. Try to remain calm and check to see if you’re hurt. If you’re not injured severely, check to see if the other driver/passengers are also ok. If not, call emergency medical services and the police immediately. (NB: Be weary of tow truck drivers: the last thing you want is to have your car towed to some yard and having to pay exorbitant amounts for these services rendered). Ensure that you get the details of the other driver. What details do you need? The drivers name and surname, ID number, License and Registration, physical address and their insurance details – If you’ve got a phone with a camera, take pictures of all these details as well as the accident scene. Call a family member or friend to let them know. Either you or the third party will need to report the accident at the police station and a case number will be issued. You should also contact your insurance provider immediately and report the accident.
You’re over the physical trauma
Now to build up your confidence to get back behind the wheel. Talk to friends and family/loved ones about your experience – it can be healing. If you don’t feel comfortable or it’s taking you a long time to get your driving confidence back, see a therapist – you might have post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Remember that accidents happen all the time, and that it’s a part of life. Go for an advanced driving course if it will help you gain your confidence back. Remember, Baby steps – drive slower and shorter distances until you feel comfortable again. Think about driving with a friend or family member until you feel comfortable enough to drive on your own. And before you know it, you’ll be on your way again.